Father of the Bride: Navigating the Fine Line Between Classic and Trendy

Carpe Diem Men has dressed generations of men for life’s most meaningful occasions—including fathers walking their daughters down the aisle.

The challenge?

Looking polished and present without trying to outshine the groom.

Striking that perfect balance between tradition and tasteful individuality.

Here’s how to dress with confidence, respect the moment, and still show a hint of personal style.

1. Start with a Classic Foundation

You can’t go wrong with a timeless suit in navy, charcoal, or deep grey.

These colours work across wedding settings—formal or semi-formal, indoor or outdoor.

Keep the lines clean and the fit sharp.

A notch lapel and two-button closure are safe, sophisticated choices.

For refined tailoring in classic hues, explore our men’s suit collection.

2. Upgrade the Shirt and Tie

A crisp white shirt is a standard—but texture or subtle pattern can elevate the look.

Pair it with a silk tie that picks up tones from the wedding palette, without being overly matchy.

If the event allows, consider a patterned pocket square for a pop of interest.

Find your perfect pairing in our dress shirt collection.

3. Add Modern Touches Without Going Overboard

Want to show some individuality?

Try a tailored vest under your jacket. Or choose a lightweight jacket with an unstructured shoulder.

Textured fabrics, tonal accessories, or even a hint of color in your boutonnière add contemporary appeal without breaking tradition.

For understated yet fresh layers, browse our sport jacket options.

4. Invest in Fit—Not Flash

The most stylish men don’t wear the loudest pieces—they wear the best-fitting ones.

Tailoring makes all the difference.

Ensure your sleeves, pant length, and shoulders are adjusted to your frame.

Our in-house tailoring ensures everything sits exactly as it should.

5. Choose Footwear That Balances Form and Function

Shoes matter more than most men think.

Go for classic leather oxfords, brogues, or loafers in a tone that complements your suit.

Avoid sneakers or overly casual choices, even for outdoor ceremonies.

For comfort that doesn’t compromise on polish, check out our dress shoe selection.

6. Don’t Forget Grooming and Posture

You’re going to be in the spotlight—make sure you look the part.

Fresh grooming, clean nails, and well-maintained facial hair all matter.

Stand tall, smile genuinely, and keep your shoulders relaxed for photos.

For style tips that go beyond the clothes, read our guide on looking great in wedding photos.

Conclusion

Being the father of the bride is an honour.

Your look should reflect the importance of the moment—classic, dignified, but with just enough personality to make it yours.

At Carpe Diem Men, we’ll help you strike the perfect balance between tradition and taste.

Visit us in-store or book a consultation to create a wedding-day look that fits your role and reflects your style.