Wedding Style for the Modern Groom: Breaking Tradition with Contemporary Looks

Modern weddings aren’t bound by the same old rules—and neither should your style be.

Today’s groom has more freedom than ever to express personal taste, cultural nods, and a fresh sense of confidence through his attire.

At Carpe Diem Men, we help grooms find a look that feels timeless yet unmistakably current.

Here’s how to break tradition with intention and own your moment with a contemporary wedding look.

1. Rethink the Classic Black Tux

While the black tuxedo will always have its place, many modern grooms are exploring alternatives that feel more relaxed yet equally refined.

Consider a deep navy suit, soft grey, or even a rich forest green.

These tones photograph beautifully and allow you to stand out without looking loud.

Explore contemporary colour options in our wedding suit collection.

2. Embrace Texture and Fabric Variety

Modern style is all about depth.

Swap out traditional wool for lightweight blends, brushed cotton, or subtle patterns like tonal checks and twills.

These details offer visual interest without overpowering your overall look.

Our curated men’s suit collection features a range of fabrics designed to move with you and photograph beautifully.

3. Personalize with Unexpected Accessories

Think beyond the standard tie and pocket square.

From textured lapel pins to tonal bowties or even turtlenecks under jackets, accessories give you a chance to infuse character into your look.

Just remember—understated always trumps overdone.

Find refined finishing touches in our wedding accessories collection.

4. Consider a Two-Look Approach

More grooms are choosing one look for the ceremony and another for the reception.

For example: A formal three-piece suit or tuxedo for the vows, followed by a relaxed sport jacket and tailored trouser for the evening celebration.

It’s a practical way to stay comfortable and stylish all day long.

Ask about custom options during your consultation appointment.

5. Tailoring Still Matters—More Than Ever

No matter how modern the look, the fit must be perfect.

Contemporary styling often features slimmer silhouettes, cropped jackets, and tapered trousers—so expert alterations are essential.

At Carpe Diem Men, our in-house tailoring ensures your suit works with your frame, not against it.

6. Break the Rules, But Do It with Intention

Style evolves, but substance remains.

If you're going to challenge tradition—whether it's with colour, accessories, or silhouette—do it with confidence and a clear point of view.

The goal isn't to be trendy. It's to be timeless on your own terms.

For more guidance on how to dress for formal events without following every rule, read our advice on dressing for special occasions.

Conclusion

Your wedding look should be more than just a suit—it should reflect who you are today, and the tone you want to set for the future.

Whether you’re planning something formal or a little more relaxed, Carpe Diem Men offers the guidance, selection, and tailoring to ensure your style speaks clearly.

Visit us in-store at 569 Danforth Avenue in Toronto or book a one-on-one consultation to explore contemporary wedding looks tailored just for you.